4th oct-6th oct

4th Oct - 6th Oct..

we headed to Alor Setar for our family member's 1st ever University Convocation...
my sis's convo in UUM - University Utara Malaysia...which is in perlis...it took us more than 4hours to reach thre from ipoh...
im so proud that my sis graduated with a v gd result...so proud...2nd class upper if im not mistaken??nt sure d...bt i rmb she passed her final in final sem with first class honour...well done my dear sis!!!good job...
n got dozens of prezzies that day..i can feel that how loving is she n how adorable she is among her frens n juniors...all of us helped to take the presents..rly alot...
on the day, it was heavily rain...it was rly bad n disappointing..
as v planned to take lotsa pics together w my dad at the field...like throwing graduation hat n etc...
well...as it was so heavily rain..my dad cnt even get off the car...
stayed in the car alone until we're done...so sad...cnt even take nice pics w his v first daughter who finally graduated from local government university...
n worst is...my mum n her bf - hon goh goh were both not allowed to go into the hall to watch the most significant n most important moment which is the moment of my sis going up to the stage to receive her honourable cert...wtF!!!!due to so-called "not so formal" dressing....god!!eat shit!!!bad arrangement!!!go hell!!
at the same time...sigh...had a thought in my mind...rly sad that y m i now studying in private uni??
y didn't i do better in stpm??y didn't i appreciate the chance of getting interview in my dream uni??
y didn't i work harder abit so that i can now in local government uni??
so that mum n dad dnt hv to pay such a big sum of money for my tuition fees??why???
aiksss...how good would it be if im now in local gov uni...y??

well...continue here...
we went there one day earlier...n stayed overnight at my auntie's place...
which her convo was actually on 5th Oct..
we went for family photo shooting once we reached...
my sis paid for it as she got her first pay in Singapore..its about RM400+
bt the quality isnt good...not as professional as we thought..n its not worth with the price...
aiksss...niway...had a great time there..as we took lotsa pics with our v own DSLR...
enjoy..n my sis had been so so bc with her gatherings with her uni frens n juniors...
here to share out the pics...
n i took my first flight...by AirAsia from Alor Setar back to KL..
well...first time fly upon the clouds..n i promise myself...il pay for myself for a longer journey to overseas when im afford to after coming out to work...
n my first destination wil be AUSTRALIA,Melbourne...
my promise to Elena...il fulfill it!!wait for me!!=p

3rd Oct - cousin bro's wedding day

Stephen n i were rushing back to ipoh in the evening..
as i was really very bc preparing for my final assignment...
went bck on that evening n reached in ipoh ard 630pm...
which was actually the mooncake festival...
once i got home..took a bath..simply make up..den rushed to the restaurant..
n i arrived just before the bride and groom walk into the hall...
hahahaha..rly paise...and luckily there are really alot of guests that night..
and it wasnt so obvious...
had a great dinner with them...
yea..again..i sang on stage...planned to sing new songs actually..
bt i din prepare cd...n the lousy PA system dsnt have new songs provided..
so...sang faye wong's 《我愿意》 again...i also sien..aiksss...
niway...as long as ppl like it...n evbody were rly quite n listened to me...
thx for 捧场...hahaha...
after the dinner, my cousin called me up..
told me that his frens asked for my no...n wanted to know me...
hahaha...and this is funny...lol...
even his girl's frens also asked whre did i do my hair cut...of cz i wnt mind sharing..hehehe..
well...rly thx for ur compliments n ur attention...nice to know u guys ^^
n of cz we took alot of pics that night..as this is a very memorable day for them..
gonna burn the pictures into a cd for them..=)
happy wedding to u cousin bro and cousin sis-in-law..
wish u both happy together n sweet forever...take gd care and have faith alw!!＾＾
here it goes the photo gallery..

朋友啊
我又开始想你了


很emo
常想起你你你你你你你了
在那里的你们
还好吗?

即特别也重要的你们
可有想起我了吗？
要保重啊！

十月二号

隆重介绍我的小宝贝终于加入我的生活了
它就是我最爱的偶像 - 王力宏代言的NIKON牌DSLR相机
model为 NIKON D90..
哈哈哈！！太开心了。。。
谢谢爸爸妈妈给我买了。。。
是奢侈了
但实在太值得了！！
能够拍出一流的色质
一流的层次感
扑抓一流的景象
和角度
实在是太爽了！！呜啊卡卡！！
没有后悔
没有遗憾！！
那当然价值不菲， 至少对我家而言是很昂贵的
它值 RM4300 。。。
真是物有所值。。。
一分钱一分货啊！！
当然有些人会说浪费钱的家伙
oK...SO..???
哈哈...因为我和我的家人因为有了这架相机..
更加和乐融融
更加珍惜在一起的时光
常把欢乐的时光
在相机的扑抓下
成了值得纪念的照片和回忆
欢迎你的加入
BABY D!!
我会好好利用你
来让我的生命活得更精彩, 更灿烂!!

人生有几回
当今世的你注定出生于这个家
你就是一辈子是这个家的人
我很庆幸我出生于这个陈氏家庭
我家很美满吗？
是的， 我可以说是。。。
也许就因我们从小经历的大大小小事
让我们很珍惜家的温暖
幼稚园时爸爸就残废了
小小的我
就因为他是我最亲的父亲
我并不畏俱拿起dressing的用具把他清洗那已无知觉的伤口
心里在痛 难过死
因为如果那是我肯定痛死
但爸爸很勇敢
他没有埋怨
几年来常常出外医治
只因心有不甘
不能相信就是不能走了
妈妈的坚强
和爸爸一起走过了这段日子
但一次又一次的失望
没关系
爸爸只能接受
也接受了特别的训练好让自己能够独立的生活
我因为你的努力
你的坚强
你的勇气
而非常的骄傲
自豪
这十多年来
你也因大大小小的病
入院就医
尤其严重的那次就是TB
换来了多少次的热泪和担忧
谢谢上苍这也度过了
也许这就是你四十九岁的大劫
大难也过了必定有后福
结果又因十多年前的伤口复发又入院几次
终于痊愈了
感谢上苍
所以每当有人用鄙视的眼光看向我爸爸时
我更是以犀利的眼神看回去
怎么了？没看过吗？
没看过那么幸福的残废人吗？
没看过可以有那么好看的儿女的残废人吗？
妒忌是吧？
我是好恋一点，又怎样？
那样看我爸 的你们有吗？
又能力 吗？
可你们就没他那么勇敢
没他那么坚强
没他那么乐观
没他那么幸福
又怎样？？去死！！
所以当听到朋友们那么的不爱他们的家人时
真的很生气
很讨厌
你们怎么能够这样？
你们的爸爸有残废吗？
你们的妈妈会天天呆在家照顾这照顾那
一照顾就是十多年
哪里也不能去
更不能扮美吗？
你们的父母个个都是健全的
个个都是大老板
个个能赚大钱
他们从小就培养你
给你充足的衣食住行
还不够吗？
那你要怎样？
知足常乐
那样叛逆
那么的爱顶撞
能换什么来着？
告诉我啊！
这么多年这么忽视他们
你有换来他们更爱你吗？
你是笨蛋！！
到时子欲养而亲不在时
我一定会笑你，
你是猪头
你活该！！
说也说了
劝也劝了
还是不听
我没办法
说坏点
我会等着看好戏好好的取笑你！！
希望那个你能对号入座
好好看看，回想，
更重要的是反省！！！
身为朋友才会说
说是为你着想
你生气就生气吧
不想看你死
我也看不过眼
想帮你一把
好好珍惜你的家人
不要再笨下去！！

擁有朋友是一件多麼幸福的事

如果有一天, 你覺得想哭了,
打電話給我,
我不能保證我能讓你笑,
可是我可以跟你一起哭.


如果有一天, 你覺得想跑開,
不要不好意思打電話給我,
我不保證會要求你停下來,
但是我可以一路跟你一起跑


如果有一天, 你不想再聽任何人的話,
打電話給我 ,
我答應你我一定在你身邊,
而且我保證一定非常的安靜待在你身邊.


但是, 如果有一天, 你打了電話給我,
可是卻沒有任何回音,
趕快來找我,
也許是我需要你的時候, 我的朋友


有一種朋友，需要天天見面，事事關聯，或許常常磨擦---為了〝圓融相處〞，
讓自己的缺口被對方填滿，更適合〝膩〞在一起...
另一種朋友，很長一段時間見一面
像週期性的拋物線，
今年談去年見面的情景或年年談第一次交叉線的悸動，百說不厭！

衝突，從來沒有存在過；
思念，卻習慣性的出現在某個季節。

也有朋友，很少見面，靠默契、靈通...第六感，
總給對方需要的激動、感動...甚至心動的感覺，

期待每次的心電交流，

哪怕只有在E-Mail、平信、問候的電話，都令人興奮不已。

第一類朋友是『依賴』
第二類朋友是『慣性』
第三類朋友是『緣定』

友情釀的酒，比地窖裡的女兒紅香醇可口，入喉令人陶醉。
你知道一生中有多少陌生人曾與你擦肩而過？
而朋友是多麼可貴啊！
擁有朋友是一件多麼幸福的事...

贊曰：還有一種朋友就是每天會傳信，不灌爆你信箱絕不罷休的

讓你每天一大早就知道，這個世界上還有一個朋友記得你
當信件被退回時，他就知道你休假了，要不然就是換公司了
不過，是一種被記得的溫馨......

結論：嗯～～繼續努力灌爆大家的信箱，繼續讓大家『溫馨』...
思念 有誰知道沒有言語也沒有文字 可以了解的完全
真正的是 藏在心裡面的
儘管 天會變人會老
回憶會隨著時間的河流 愈走愈淡
也許不是承諾 也許說不出口
但思念 卻隨著生命一直延續下去

在国外的朋友们

我很想你！！

请你们每个都能对号入座

然后再想想我

真的真的很想念你。。。

story telling - recall back to 1st oct 2009

well...from the v beginning of tis month...
i noe..it would be a bc month for me...
i gonna save up alot of money just to buy presents for all my oct bday buddies...
there are too many of them..the october babies...
n of cz...included the dearest person in the world to me...stephen tan...
so...i would like to blog each n every meaningful events which happened to me tis two weeks...

1st OCT - STEPHEN'S 21ST BDAY CELEBRATION

i was having my final exam two days b4 his bday.n i was so so so bc to prepare for this final papers which burst my brain to memorize al the notes of these subjects...n i was so poor tt alm bankrupt...i cudnt even prepare any bday prezzie for my beloved one...im so sry for tt...i cud oni planned a small surprise for him the day b4..w the help from our fren - adrian n cy...n yet..on his bday...i stil need to submit my design model to my lecturers which i oni did 20% on 30th sept...so...u may guess wat cn i do for him with so many work tt i hv to finish by tt day...rly crazy...drove me mad...well...ntg much tt i did for him tis year...feel v bad...tho my bday he din gt me any prezzie except for the bouquet of roses...which i love the most...hahahaha...well...dnt get off fr the topic...well...on 27th sept...night...i was having group study w our fren adrian..n i requested for his help of buying a cake for him to gv him a small surprise at 12am on his bday...n he agreed to help me out as he understood my situation..."thx adrian!" con*..he turned up w a few others to clb w stephen at 12am tt nite...w a choc cheese cake...nice cake =)
on his bday...
we went to damansara "牛车水 " @ FULL HOUSE...had our dinner thre w a few of his best frens fr music school...eunice, song lin and phyllis...v enjoyed n had great fun over thre...crazy n bc taking pics...v took more than 150pics that nite...hahahaaha...gd record...tho v oni hv our hp camera...so wat...it is stil v enjoyable...n v promised to go there again w a nice camera so that v cud get nice shoots over there...i feel bad as i din get to prepare anyth for him tis year as wat i used to do for him in his ev bday...sumre tis is one of the most important bday - his 21st bday clb...n i did so little for him...niway...my love and faith...tis is the best thing i cud ever give...n i hope to clb each n every bday w u in future until the end of the world...=) i love u , stephen tan chee seng!!

here...to share u a few pics that v hv taken in FULL HOUSE, damansara..

the full house

the food here is not bad...n it is not v expensive which is out of my expectation...look nice n taste nice...

the menu of the FULL HOUSE...nice n cute booklet
songlin, phyllis, eunice n i
fashion show ^^

oct month...a v v v bc month...
from day one til now...
its like never stop...
evday gt different occasions...
evday is different..
evday is full with colours n tears...
too much to blog...
hv no time to blog all tis moment...
stil v v bc...
so...gonna tels evth in detail soon...=)

别想太多

不要以为你很屌
不要以为你很好
不要以为你很棒
不要以为你很“DIM”
不要以为你很“GENG”
不要以为你很厉害
不要在那里自以为是
不要在那里自作主张
不要在那里痴心妄想
因为你只是自己在那里
想太多！！
老实告诉你
你一点也不厉害
一点也不特出
一点也不让我羡慕
是根本没有
别想太多
你只是太过自负
太过高傲
太过高估你自己
太过自以为是
我一点也不需要你的帮忙
更不稀罕你的意见
因为你没有资格
更没有本事来批评我
我有信心
我比你更出色
更优秀
别以为自己的就是对的
自己的就是好的
自己的就是最优秀的
你错了！！
你不是！！
更没有批评别人的资格
听见你对别人
给予恶评时
听到就刺耳
看到就讨厌
你并没有比别人优秀很多
你只是幸运而已
你只是想太多
现在的你
更讨人厌
不想再见到你
这个烦人的自负鬼

去死！！！！！

nice chat w mund

finally...get contact with mund d..
so happy to chat w him...
miss him alot..as in friends le...
ppl who dnt noe me well pls do not simply judge our relationship..
mund and i are like more to family kind close friends..
my mum even cried for his leave...hahahaha..no joke..its true...hahahaaha
well...chat w him...n he showed me his room and talk abt his life thre...
well...i could see tt it is a v nice city to stay in...so jealous..
rly rly hope i could go thre n further my studies someday...
mb nt the same place....bt i would appreciate if im given the chance of learning overseas...
well...we had a video call with our webcam on..
well..dnt noe y...our image is kinda blur...bt luckily...
my page here, my image is blur but nt his so i could stil see him clearly with his "PIMPLES"
hahahahaha...sorry le...
n on his side, my image was clear bt not him...hahahah
so...fine le...since v could see each others clearly...
well..
here to share a few pics w u all...
even its a short talk with him..
i feel glad whole night...
cz...he is mund..my dear fren...

he was trying to show me his hostel....
ended with a bye...take care mate!!hugssss....
mis u mund...

sth to share : mund's contact in scottland...

Add:
Block H3.3
James Blyth Court,
57, Rottenrow East,
Glasgow G4 0NG,
Scotland.

contact number : +447909280212

这几天
脑里一直浮现我们之间的回忆
我们经过的事物
我们一起度过的时光
是那么美丽的回忆
与你们的相遇就像是个美丽的邂逅
一路以来制造了美丽的回忆
从我们如何相识
在相识之前又是如何的相遇
过后相知
再相识
在相识后又是如何变成好友
便成好友后又是怎样交换电话号码
交换后的互动
更成为无所不谈的知己
到现在这样要好的关系
等等。。。
一切一切的回忆都是那么的难以忘记。。
很怀念我们在一起度过的时光
我们又是如何的珍惜这段友谊
如何的维系
努力的都要告诉对方近况
现在的你
能像以前一样
和我联系
努力的维系我们之间珍贵的友谊吗？
我等你的电邮
想念你们
我的好兄弟！！

finally...mund contact w us today..
im so glad...finally..i get his news...
miss them alot tis few days..
really alot..
keep thinking what we had went thru all these years...
sweet,sour and tears...
each and every moments we went thru is so memorable and unforgettable..
i really treasure our frenship alot...
n i alw do...
i appreciate each and every seconds we spent together...
you r like my brother..
we r as close as if we are family...
love having such feelings..
love having such great frens like u all..
bt y r u guys all leaving msia..??
y r v alw separated apart?
cudnt v just stick together alw??
i dnt wan to grow up...just dnt feel like growing up..
i wan to stay at whre we were all together happily spending our lovely precious time together...
miss u guys alot...='(

the meet up

had a great day w my dearest frens together on saturday..
a v memorable n unforgettable day to be remembered forever...
it was a farewell to chiming n weiyang who is leaving to Scottland, UK next saturday..
it was also a belated bday celebration for our sept bday babies - weiyang n meeyoon...
yea...again...we were there again in CHILLIS as our zaixi loves that place so much...
and thats the reason why we have to hv our gatherings over there very time..=.=ll
niway...it is indeed a nice place to have our meal...=)
it was kinda surprised that there were a few of them coming dwn to kl for this farewell gathering..
n of cz including both of the main characters for tis gathering,weiyang n chiming...
they are ryan, his gf peiyi, n kevinder..
v were happily chatting all the way during the long lunch v had over CHILLIS...
bc taking pics together as it would be our last time to gather ard b4 two of them are leaving msia...







































aft that..v had karaoke period in cheras Neway...
had great fun for that also of cz...
it was during the dinner buffet time...so its kinda expensive...
luckily our weiyang is sept baby,n wasnt charged...free entrance for him..
n he is so kind tt he is willing to divide the total amount of the expenses w us...
so that we dnt hv to pay so much...thx mund!!=)
evbody was so high n enjoyed singing that night...
v even stand on the sofa n sing + dance...
hahahaha...n of cz photo taking period was stil on through out the whole session..=)
ev moment n expression were taken dwn under the lens of the DSLR camera which i borrowed from Joe...

























n thre was one part to be mentioned here is..
i din managed to hold my tears from dropping dwn when we were singing "our story"..
which was specially selected by me for two of them..
as i was rly touched n influenced by the lyrics which speaks out my actual feelings...
gonna miss them alot n alot...
my dear frens....love u guys..
glad to have u guys as my close frens...
i alw appreciate our frenship v much...
take care thre...muaxxx...
hugss....

btw....thre was another case...
hahaha...i wore my 5inch-high high heels that day...
it was gd throughout the whole eve...i looked so tall that day..happy ^^
bt..i started to feel the pain on my legs when the karaoke session ended...
i even have difficulty of walking bck to the car...
swt...luckily, eric-Ah Pak hold me n acc me all the way bck...hahaha...
pity u le...sry n paise la...=p
thx to zaixi who fetched me bck to connaught aft tt...
thx to yiwei for fetching me fr midvalley to neway...
n thx to my dear who fetch me bck tho he was having stomache...
love u guys..
n gonna miss u guys alw =)

a v happy thing to bring out here is..
suet mei n i met w our close fren - peixin - HO HUAN!!!!
was super duper glad to c her there...as v hv nt been seeing each others since stpm ended...
wat a coincident!!so happy!!omg...
n tis made saturday a perfect day!!=)
thx god..for arranging tis meet up...love tis!!!
we were so excited...felt like crying...
its true!!we were like hugging each others closely...
as u need to noe is..she is my dearest classmate...
she is the gal who sat beside me in class during form six..
who alw encouraged me..
who gave my alot of advices n help in homework...
she is a v important fren of mine during form six period...
pls take care over thre my dear fren...=)
muaaxx...love u alw!!hugsss...
promise to come out together nxt tm yea!!!=)

我们的故事

在你左右
还有多久
怎么样才能让时间倒流
每一分每一秒都珍重
握紧的手
不愿放松
九点半的飞机它在等候
不要再让自己的眼泪流
你必须要走
要记得~~~
我们的故事真难忘
太多的回忆和希望
不管它有多疯狂
我愿意一生收藏
我们的故事不能忘
太多的情节要发展
不要放弃
因为有一天缘份会继续
在你左右
还有多久
怎么样才能让时间倒流
每一分每一秒都珍重
握紧的手
不愿放松
九点半的飞机它在等候
不要再让自己的眼泪流
你必须要走
要记得~~~
我们的故事真难忘
太多的回忆和希望
不管它有多疯狂
我愿意一生收藏
我们的故事不能忘
太多的情节要发展
不要放弃
因为有一天缘份会继续
我知道你寂寞
一个人确实好难过
思念是一种痛
没有你叫我怎么活
身边充满诱惑
不坚定就容易犯错
你是否能看见未来的收获
你愿意在耐心等候
我们的故事真难忘
太多的回忆和希望
不管它有多疯狂
我愿意一生收藏
我们的故事不能忘
太多的情节要发展
不要放弃
因为有一天缘份会继续
让我们一起演完

还记得么
这首我点的歌
歌词是那么地贴切
那么的感人
意境更是异常地符合
眼泪就这样流下
因为有你们
我的日子过得那么的愉快
因为有你们
我相信
男女之间还是有着非常珍挚的友谊
因为有你们
让我有倾述的地方
你们就像家人一样的知己
就像哥哥们那么爱护我的知己
让我在你们之间
有着被宠爱集于一身的感觉
被你们呵护着
爱护着
让我有着你们
是那么的幸福
所以
怎么能在你们离国之前
没有任何的感觉呢？
这里有让我带进另一首
也会让我洒泪的歌吧

谁能够划船不用桨
谁能够扬帆没有风向
谁能够离开好朋友 没有感伤
我可以划船不用桨
我可以扬帆没有风向
但是朋友啊 当你离我远去 我却不能不感伤

不感伤 是不可能的
我们曾经拥有过那么多美丽快乐的回忆
度过那么多让人怀念的时光
现在你们两一起走了
怎么可能会不感伤呢？

能够与你们做知己是多么让人快乐的事
我很庆幸我有这个福气
谢谢你们
一直以来为我加油打气
鼓励我
协助我
义不容辞的接送我
让我能够出席
每个聚会
现在
没有了你们
我该怎么办？
怎么办
现在的我
很想念你们
非常的想念

朋友
一直以来对我来说都是非常的重要
而你们两个
更是在异性朋友的名单里
占据非常高的位置的
非常的不舍
不舍我们的高谈阔论
不舍我们的细语密谈
不舍我们的默契合唱
不舍我们的知趣相投
不舍我们的珍惜拥抱
不舍我们互相交换秘密的日子
种种的不舍
一定会让我
在九月十九这天
泪洒机场
没有你们
我的日子
变得很孤单了
再也没有人
会打电话给我
跟我说
今天我又被人骗钱了
今天我又被人偷了电脑了
今天我的脚又受伤了
再也没有人可以让我
在做设计遇到瓶颈时
可以找人帮忙了
原来
你们一直以来占据我生活里的部分是那么的多
别人都说
失去了才会懂得珍惜
我终于了解了
虽然这不是失去而是离别
更不是等到失去
才会珍惜
而是
我一直都很珍惜
我们在一起的日子
尤其
到你那里帮忙你做功课割模型
到你那里讨论该怎么排版
在你那里过夜熬夜做功课
虽然如此
我依然怀念
依然回味
我们在房间里的述谈
陪你过你在你房间的最后一晚
与你一起帮合唱团办事
聆听你们在爱情感情上的故事
一一都丰富了我们的友谊

我会怀念
你们的拥抱
你们的关怀
你们的欢笑
你们的倾听
你们的聆听
你们的故事
你们的玩笑

你的瘙痒
你在拥抱时
在我耳边
低声地告诉我
要好好照顾自己
和帮我擦眼泪的时候
还有你叫我笨蛋的时候
我都会怀念

到了那里
要记得想起我
不要忘了联络
因为我
不想失去这两段非常珍贵的友谊
我真的爱你们
朋友
珍重啊！